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27. D. G. Dutton & S. K. Golant, The Batterer: A psychological profile, New York: Basic Books, 1995.

28. Ibid.

29. Erich Fromm, The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness, Penguin, 1973, p. 323.

30. N. S. Websdale, ‘Of nuclear missiles and love objects: The humiliated fury of Kevin Jones’, Journal of Contemporary Ethnography, 2010, 39(4), pp. 388–420.

31. J. Brown, ‘Shame and domestic violence: Treatment perspectives for perpetrators from self psychology and affect theory’, Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 2004, 19(1), pp. 39–56.

32. Allan G. Johnson, The Gender Knot: Unraveling our patriarchal legacy. Philadelphia, PA: Temple University Press, 2005.

33. Brené Brown, ‘Listening to Shame’, TED Talk, March 2012.

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2. European Union Agency for Fundamental Rights, Violence Against Women: An EU-wide survey, Luxembourg: Publications Office of the European Union, 5 March 2014.

3. Peta Cox, Violence Against Women in Australia: Additional analysis of the Australian Bureau of Statistics’ Personal Safety Survey, 2012, Sydney: ANROWS2016.

4. David Leser, ‘Women, men and the whole damn thing’, The Sydney Morning Herald, 9 February 2018.

5. Michael Ian Black, ‘The boys are not alright’, The New York Times, 21 February 2018.

6. Elise Scott & Elise Pianegonda, ‘Heterosexual, white men with jobs «aren’t included in anything», Canberra Liberal MLA says’, ABC News (online), 21 September 2017.

7. Johnson, Th e Gender Knot, pp. 5–12.

8. Ibid., p. 64.

9. Terrence Real, How Can I Get Through to You?: Closing the intimacy gap between men and women, Simon & Schuster, 2010.

10. Tim Winton, ‘About the boys: Tim Winton on how toxic masculinity is shackling men to misogyny’, The Guardian, 9 April 2018.

11. Maree Crabbe & David Corlett (dirs), Love and Sex in an Age of Pornography, documentary, 2013.

12. A. Armstrong, A. Quadara, A. El-Murr & J. Latham, ‘The effects of pornography on children and young people: An evidence scan’, Melbourne: Australian Institute of Family Studies, 2017.

13. Gail Dines, ‘Choking women is all the rage. It’s branded as fun, sexy «breath play»’, The Guardian.

14. May 2018. 14 A. J. Brieges, R. Wosnitzer, E. Scharrer, C. Sun & R. Liberman ‘Aggression and sexual behavior in best-selling pornography videos: A content analysis update’, Violence Against Women, October 2010, 16(10): 1065–85.

15. Maree Crabbe, ‘Porn as sex education: A cultural influence we can no longer ignore’, The Guardian, 3 August 2016.

16. Gail Dines, Pornland: How porn has hijacked our sexuality, Beacon Press, August 2010.

17. Megan S. C. Lim et al., ‘Young Australians; use of pornography and associations with sexual risk behaviours’, Australian and New Zealand Journal of Public Health, June 2017.

18. Miranda Horvath et al., Basically… porn is everywhere: A rapid evidence assessment on the effects that access and exposure to pornography has on children and young people, Office of the Children’s Commissioner, 2013.

19. P. Weston, ‘New data shows Gold Coast’s domestic violence crisis being fuelled by links to pornography’, Gold Coast Bulletin, 7 October 2016.

20. bell hooks, Feminism is for Everybody: Passionate politics, Pluto Press, 2000.

21. bell hooks, The Will to Change: Men, masculinity, and love, Simon & Schuster, January 2004, pp. 6–7.

22. Ibid., p. 7.

23. Andy Hinds, ‘Messages of shame are organized around gender’, The Atlantic, 26 April 2013.

24. L. Penny, 2018, at https://twitter.com/PennyRed/status/99239681687 9628289 and https://twitter.com/PennyRed/status/989070547769323520

25. Steph Harmon, ‘#MeToo revelations and loud, angry men: The feminism flashpoint of Sydney Writers’ Festival’, The Guardian, 5 May 2018.

26. Ann Watson Moore, ‘Domestic violence offender: How I decided to kill my wife’, Gold Coast Bulletin, 8 November 2018.

27. Michael Salter, ‘Real men do hit women’, Meanjin, Autumn 2016.

28. Australian Bureau of Statistics, Causes of Death, Australia, 2017, Canberra: ABS, 2018.

1. David Indermaur & Australian Institute of Criminology, Young Australians and Domestic Violence, Canberra: Australian Institute of Criminology, 2001.

2. Australian Bureau of Statistics, Personal Safety Survey, Australia, Canberra: ABS, 2016.

3. Government of South Australia’s response to the Child Protection Systems Royal Commission report, The Life They Deserve: Margaret Nyland, Child Protection Systems Royal Commission Report, Vol. 1 Summary and Report, August 2016.

4. R. Pilkington et al. Child Protection in South Australia, BetterStart Child Health and Development Research Group, School of Public Health, The University of Adelaide, 2017.

5. Rebecca Puddy, ‘Australia facing an «epidemic of child abuse and neglect», according to experts’, ABC News (online), 16 September 2018.

6. Herman, Tr auma and Recovery, p. 96.

7. Australian Institute of Family Studies, ‘What is child abuse and neglect?’ CFCA Resource sheet, AIFS, September 2018.

8. Megan Mitchell, ‘A life free from violence and fear: a child’s right’, speech given at 2016 International Congress on Child Abuse and Neglect, 29 August 2016.

9. Ruth Clare, ‘Seen But Not Heard’, Meanjin, Summer 2017.

10. Rose Cairns et al., ‘Trends in self-poisoning and psychotropic drug use in people aged 5–19 years: A population-based retrospective cohort study in Australia’, BMJ Open, 2019, 9(2).

11. Mazoe Ford, ‘Australian suicide deaths rising among women and teenage girls, ABS figures show’, ABC News (online), 29 September 2016.

12. Paige Taylor, ‘Wyatt confronted with stark reminder of youth suicide scourge’, The Australian, 22 March 2019.

13. Shalailah Medhora, ‘«It rips your heart out»: Five Aboriginal girls under 15 died by suicide within days’, Hack, ABC Triple J, 18 January 2019.

14. Speech by Megan Mitchell, Australian Children’s Commissioner, at the 13th Australasian Injury Prevention Network Conference, 13 November 2017.